HomeCounselingBiblical Counseling Coalition | Three Questions for the Battle...

Biblical Counseling Coalition | Three Questions for the Battle Towards Fear


Asking questions amid our worries can assist us focus and take dominion over this wrestle. This text poses three inquiries to ask your self or others within the battle in opposition to fear.

1. What Does Fear Take Me Away From?

“Fear” means to be pulled in several instructions. Matthew 6:34 and the context offered by verses 19-33 of that chapter reveals us why. In that verse, Jesus instructions us to not fear about luxurious or primary requirements as a result of God is aware of our wants and calls us to far larger work than acquiring non permanent treasures. Quite than fear about these non permanent issues, Jesus says to devour ourselves with trusting, worshipping, and doing the work of reflecting God in a fallen world. And therein lies the rub. Worrying isn’t nearly doubting God or not seeing Him precisely. It’s additionally about being torn in several instructions. The inordinate period of time and bandwidth that fear takes can devour us, consuming up our time, ideas, and sources that needs to be used to additional God’s kingdom.

2. How Do I Know If I’ve Gone Too Far with My Issues?

What begins out as an inexpensive or biblical concern can develop into one thing bigger and sinful if left unchecked. The next continuum isn’t meant to be a scientific examination however presents an concept of how our considerations can progress. Definitions of every phrase are included under. Understanding the place you land in a given second or on common can assist you steer again towards affordable, right-sized concern.

Concern: Care that’s affordable and in correct relation to the entire image (actuality, details about circumstances, and details about God’s character, functions, and guarantees). Examples embody Philippians 2:20 and 1 Thessalonians 3:5.

 

Fear: To be distracted due to the quantity of care you’ve for one thing or somebody that’s disproportionate with actuality. God is aware of you’ll have considerations and cares on this world (John 16:33); it’s that oversized concern that drifts into fear that’s spoken in opposition to in Scripture.

 

Distortions: Worries can progress to incorporate false eager about God, others, and ourselves. Examples embody not believing that God is who He says He’s or not believing He’ll do what He guarantees. We are able to slide into incorrect views about what folks or possessions can or can’t do for us. Or we could have distorted views of how a lot affect now we have on what we’re anxious about or what’s going to occur if our fears come true. Left unaddressed, distortions can lead us to keep away from our rightful tasks or search complete management.

 

Avoidance: Not caring sufficient about what or who God has given you to look after; irresponsible and neglectful. Doubtlessly worse than fear because it neglects who or what God has given us to form for His functions and glory. Discover how the person given one expertise had incorrect views of his grasp, main that man to be afraid of his grasp and neglect his tasks to steward what he was given (Matt. 25:24-25). Avoidance also can come from being overwhelmed or being worn down over time.

 

Management: Pushing God out of the equation, placing your self or what you’re anxious about on the throne; having a mentality that all of it falls on you; keen to behave unwisely and even sinfully to get what you need.

 

3. Whose Agenda Am I Pursuing?

Agendas can preserve conferences on observe by serving to members know what to anticipate, the way to put together forward of time, and what might be achieved. Since fear is about being pulled in several instructions, understanding God’s agenda for our considerations can assist us keep on observe. However generally, we neglect Devil additionally has an agenda. Our adversary is on the prowl and would like to take us down by means of our worries.

The next chart highlights examples of the dueling agendas that God and Devil have for our considerations. You’ll discover that some are about speech, others about ideas and the center, and nonetheless others are about actions or a mix. And that’s as a result of it is a multi-faceted battle that requires our complete being to be engaged.

God’s Agenda for Our Issues
God needs us to…
Devil’s Agenda for Our Issues
Devil needs us to…
Keep in mind His goodness and provision in our lifeOverlook or doubt God’s goodness and provision in our life
Reap the benefits of hardships to turn into extra like Christ, particularly when our fears turn into a actualitySquander alternatives to develop in Christ by pursuing escapism or complete management
View Him and our worries preciselyView our worries as large and God as small
Fulfill our tasks as faithfully as attainable, and depart outcomes to HimNeglect our tasks or try to seize unreasonable management
Inform Him about our fearsGet misplaced in our personal ideas and fears
Stay and act based mostly on actualityStay and act based mostly on assumptions and “film” reels we create in our minds
Acknowledge fear is sinfulConsider fear isn’t a sin or that it’s not so dangerous
Get goal, Christ-centered views from others to filter our ideas and think about actualityGo it alone and fill within the blanks with unfiltered ideas not based mostly in actuality
Take our ideas captiveAssume our ideas are our personal; nobody can inform us what to do with them
Place our identification within the name to mirror ChristPlace our identification in what we’re anxious about
Categorical care and concern in correct relation to the truth of our circumstancesCategorical concern disproportionate to the truth of our circumstances

Questions for Reflection

  1. Who out of your church can provide you an goal evaluation of the place (on common) you fall on the continuum of concern and assist you pursue God’s agenda in your considerations?
  1. Which features of God’s agenda in your considerations might assist you get again to affordable, right-sized concern?